[ That is a WEIRD ANSWER. She is no longer sure if she wants to know (even though she does kind of want to know).
From the lack of an immediate answer, she can probably assume that he's a lot older than he looks. Maybe it's a sensitive subject. If so, she doesn't want to tread on his comfort for the sake of her curiosity. She's used to people's histories being off-limits for discussion; this is a reminder that in some ways, she may have gotten a bit too lax with her conservative politeness. ]
If it isn't important, then you don't have to tell. You'll be the same person either way.
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From the lack of an immediate answer, she can probably assume that he's a lot older than he looks. Maybe it's a sensitive subject. If so, she doesn't want to tread on his comfort for the sake of her curiosity. She's used to people's histories being off-limits for discussion; this is a reminder that in some ways, she may have gotten a bit too lax with her conservative politeness. ]
If it isn't important, then you don't have to tell. You'll be the same person either way.