I just treat him roughly and withhold meals if he's misbehaving, but I guess I also have something that he wants from me so he's more likely to listen.

[Yeah, she dangles her virginity like a carrot in front of him. So what? It's not like first times are special or anything. And at this point she may just hold out forever from the shame. Of how many people would judge her for throwing it to him like a bone for a dog. It's not like she cares for herself, but the pity and judgment from others might kill her.]